Love and Hate

Love and It's Wrong Turns

So as we all know, love can be a beautiful thing. It's so kind and gentle, yet innocence isn't part of it anymore. Innocent love is the most sweet kind of love anyone will ever witness. But any kind of love can go wrong. Love can become narcissism if a person doesn't truly love the one their with but that other person truly loves them. Even loss of self worth can happen if you love the other person more than yourself. If love isn't cared for properly, it turns into such an ugly thing and can haunt your every step. Most young love ends not so well because they don't take care of it properly or one of them doesn't actually care for the other. A lot of young lovers think they are in love, then sadly realize that their feelings were completely different than the love they gave to the other person. Although, tons of young love does last too.
A sad part of love is when people grow apart from one another. Being from different backgrounds, age groups, religions, or even ethnicities can cause trouble. But, if your love is true, it will pull through those differences and become beautiful. I know a lot of people whom have lasted through huge differences, so there is hope for every kind of love. Love can be for anything, though, and that's where we mess up. For example, the love of money or material items. Don't get me wrong, I think I love all of my things as much as anyone and I would hate to lose them, but too much love for these things can hurt you in the long run.

Hate and It's Lies

When love goes wrong, it unfortunately usually turns into hate. but the odd thing about hate is how it comes to happen. It can even blossom from love, and it usually does. I find this very strange because love starts off with such good intentions. When someone first falls in love they can never imagine hating that person. Hate can just come from a sudden bad thought that your conscious doesn't get a hold of. Your mind can lie to you a lot, it can tell you things that aren't really true then you end up believing it and act on it with hate. I know this firsthand because of my old jealousy issues. Jealousy is just a fancy word that creates hatred. When I first started loving my boyfriend, I was a  crazy jealous person. But what people don't realize is how much hate that makes. I think I hated every girl that even talked to my boyfriend, and even started hating the guys he hung out with because of how much he enjoyed them. I was full of hate and my mind was full of those lies that the people were trying to take him from me, and I realize that now. Lots of things can create hate, please try to realize it before you become consumed by it because once you let it in, it's hard to get over it.

Well, have a good night/day (:
                 -Tommi